Finally, all of you, be of one mind, having compassion for one another; love as brothers, be tenderhearted, be courteous; not returning evil for evil or reviling for reviling, but on the contrary blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing.        1 Peter 3:8-9

 

It’s the start of Christmas week. Many families will be gathering to celebrate the birth of Christ. Sadly, there are family members that have had their feelings hurt by other members in the family circle and carry with them bitter feelings. As a result, attitudes, actions and words can dictate the dynamics of the family gathering, making for some tense moments.

 

Friend, don’t let the past imbitter your celebration of the birth of Christ. Today’s passage gives some great advice on how to navigate the holiday gatherings with those who you are not fond of or fear will take a punch at your spirit. Keep your calm and season your gathering with blessings to others, even your enemies. We are reminded that when we bless others, a blessing can be expected in return from God.

 

As a child of God, that bitter person, most likely needs to see the heart of Christ. You can be that tender heart and light that will help bring them from their darkness. Trust me, if they are bitter, they are in the dark and need your guiding light to bring them to peace with you and family. Pray to God for strength and His guidance as you gather this holiday season. God will help you navigate the holidays and bless you in the process!