Test all things; hold fast what is good. Abstain from every form of evil.

1 Thessalonians 5:21-22

A while ago I was interested in a new truck that had just come out. I saw all kinds of advertising for it....everything sounded good...so good it made you want to go down to the store and buy one. My work actually acquired a few of those trucks, so I was able to test drive it. Much to my surprise, it wasn't all the vehicle advertising had made it out to be. Thankful I was able to drive it for the day and realize you can't always believe everything you see and hear. 

That's so true in life. As Christians, it's very important to guard your life with a spirit of discernment. There are a lot of good looking people and things out there that catch our attention, but not everything is what it appears. Even what others might say, it's best to trust your God given Spirit to decide what's best for your life and what needs to be turned down for the sake of spiritual purity. 

A good measuring stick is to check the depth of their faith. Questions to ask...do they own a bible, do they read it, do they attend church (if they are able), do you see spiritual fruits in their life? If you see evidence of evil in their life, make a U-turn and run quickly away. Sometimes it seems the best looking people are ones Satan has fronted to distract us from walking in total obedience. As I've said, God blesses obedience. If they aren't completely walking in the light of Christ, how can God bless you if you pursue them with your heart?

Check them out, take them for a test ride of their heart....ask questions, and always stay guarded. Remember, everyone is at their best in the start. The true character comes out months later when the newness has worn off. Trust the Holy Spirit to lead you and give you wisdom. If He says run, don't ask questions, run back to where you began and stay protected by God's wisdom. He will ensure you have the best people in your life to bring glory to Him anbd bless you along the way. 

God bless.